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Once upon a time there were a Man and a Woman. Their name Adam and Eva. Since then we spend a lot of our time learning, finding and discovering what a relationship between a man and a woman really means.

Walking on the streets, strolling into the stores, traveling through the world, watching the  movies, I could see many and different types of couples. I was peeping while they were hugging, kissing, whispering or arguing and I learnt something. Body language is more than a book, we can find more than you ever imagine just watching their movements and face expressions.

Once I was on my way to office. Suddenly at the corner of the street a very young couple started kissing. The guy, a very handsome man holding his partner very close, was exploring the “world”. That means every single woman was passing by, he was blinking and smiling at… Too young or…?

One day in a park I was reading a newspaper. Across to me, a couple was arguing. The lady seemed very upset and her eyes filled with tears. Then I saw the man’s face expression. If he ever was angry, that melted away and instead of that I could see love. It is something like your baby feasting your eyes upon, because he just discovers you are his mom. I still keep in my mind that expression.

Thus, I discovered beyond the words, beyond we can say and see, there is another reality. You might spend a life with your husband and someday you just learn you do not know him or maybe life throw the dice and put you into a dilemma, you are two strangers because you were too busy and forgot to pay attention to the relationship. You think love is a grant but is a gift and this gift has to be maintained. We live a very busy life, kids, school, job, mortgage, loans, credit cards and so forth…where on the Earth to find time to be romantic, to cry of happiness when you see fall just knocked the door and some many colors invaded our lives? When on the Earth to find time to walk hand by hand in the park and whispering kind words? We are living a marathon and you cannot afford to stop because someone else will be winning.  Life is unmerciful and there is no time for questioning about love. Love means to live it, not to question it but if you forget to live it and think you deserve it, no matter what you do for that. You just crossed your hands and say…”Love is in the air. Is floating somewhere, all you have to do is to be smart enough and catch it…” Are you?

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